Just remember, it's a sin to marry a white girl. Bani Adams has known all his life what was expected of him. To marry a good girl. To live in a nice home. To have a respectable job. To start a family. In a series of letters to his son Kahlil, Bani recounts each of his adult relationships that lead up to Kahlil's birth. The heartache and the joy. The loves and the losses. A warm and lyrical new novel from the award-winning author of The Lebs.